Deprecated Darkstar fourms

Hello Team,
so I have figured out how to take my server from local host/playing to LAN set up for my home network.
I did exactly what I did to turn from local to LAN but it does not seem to work going from LAN to public.

here is what my log says:

[1;32m[Status][0m Memory manager initialised: [1;37mlog/DSP.leaks[0m
[1;37m[Info][0m DarkStar - Git Revision Hash: [1;37mUnknown[0m.
[1;32m[Status][0m do_init: begin server initialization...
[19:26:04][1;37m[Info][0m Console Silent Setting: 0 - [1;32m[OK][0m
[19:26:04][1;32m[Status][0m do_init: map_config is reading - [1;32m[OK][0m
[19:26:04][1;32m[Status][0m luautils::init:lua initializing... - [1;32m[OK][0m
[19:26:04][1;32m[Status][0m do_init: sqlhandle is allocating[19:26:25][1;35m[SQL][0m Can't connect to MySQL server on '50.141.77.136' (10060)
[19:26:25][1;32m[Status][0m [1;37mluautils::free[0m:lua free... - [1;32m[OK][0m
[19:26:25][1;33m[Warning][0m Memory manager: Memory leaks found and fixed.
[1;32m[Status][0m Memory manager initialised: [1;37mlog/DSP.leaks[0m
[1;37m[Info][0m DarkStar - Git Revision Hash: [1;37mUnknown[0m.
[1;32m[Status][0m do_init: begin server initialization...
[19:30:18][1;37m[Info][0m Console Silent Setting: 0 - [1;32m[OK][0m
[19:30:18][1;32m[Status][0m do_init: map_config is reading - [1;32m[OK][0m
[19:30:18][1;32m[Status][0m luautils::init:lua initializing... - [1;32m[OK][0m
[19:30:18][1;32m[Status][0m do_init: sqlhandle is allocating[19:30:39][1;35m[SQL][0m Can't connect to MySQL server on '50.141.77.136' (10060)
[19:30:39][1;32m[Status][0m [1;37mluautils::free[0m:lua free... - [1;32m[OK][0m
[19:30:39][1;33m[Warning][0m Memory manager: Memory leaks found and fixed.


can anyone help please?

You don't have to change the IP of your MySQL server to the external IP. Keep it internal.

mysql by default disallows outside connections, but you most likely want to keep it on 127.0.0.1 anyways

well I had it running successfully on my 192.168.x.x LAN

so should I update the zone IP in Navicat and then the map, login, and map conf files to the public IP. I get when I have google show my IP.
I do map the public ip google shows me to my fDNS domain

just zoneip
make sure you forward your ports on your router

so I am still unable to have people connect in.... would me connecting though one of the xfinitywifi WAPs be causing the problem??
I really don't want to have to cancel my stress test Saturday.